Try these 10 psychological tricks to easily communicate with others

 

Communication is an everlasting issue that is mentioned in everyday life. Although when you hear the word " communicate " you will find it extremely simple, but actually being able to communicate well with anyone is an art.

My father used to have a saying: " Learning to learn to speak, learn to learn open package ", which means that speaking is not natural. If you ever think so, you are wrong. Even when you are constantly criticized for lack of salt, bland, and tasteless, there are many people who have applied very successful communication tips . It's not that they have the charm of talking since childhood, but actually, the charm here is the subtlety in communication, the way to make the other person pay attention to them or be unable to take their eyes off them.

So how do you stay in control of communication and deliver a great result? Check out these 10 psychological tips - tips that are incredibly helpful in making you a more engaging and interesting communicator in the eyes of others. Invite you to consult!

1. If you ask a question and the other person only answers half, or part of your question, keep quiet for a few minutes and look the person in the eye. This technique will make the person more likely to continue talking and answering all of your questions.

2. If someone yells at you , try to stay calm as best you can. A person's initial reaction to screaming is usually anger; behaviors can be caused by agitation, but will quickly subside. Their next reaction will then be lessened by guilt over their aggressive behavior. Most likely, they will be the one to tell you to forgive your actions, as long as you don't get angry at them. So in the beginning, try to stay calm in everything - the key to solving many problems, aggression will only make the story worse.

3. If you know someone who is trying to criticize, complain or blame you in front of someone , get up your courage and try to sit or stand beside that person. In this case, the person will be more tender and say less negative things about you than if you were sitting away. However, if those words are true, you should absorb and correct them but also find ways to gently and skillfully show them that they are hurting you. If the other words are completely false, talk about everything clearly so that you don't have to misunderstand and worsen the relationship.

4. If you feel nervous or stressed when communicating , chew gum / gum. Eating will trick your brain into thinking that you are eating and have nothing to worry about, so you will feel more confident and comfortable over time. However, you should also chew candies skillfully, especially when communicating, asking permission from the other person or finding a delicate place to chew candy, to avoid making them misunderstand that you are rude.

5. Consider the surroundings that are familiar to you. This is probably a familiar method among many students in oral exams. They often imagine that a professor is a friendly and kind friend so that they can calm down and easily find the right answers to questions. This psychological technique seems to work in a lot of situations. Try it out before an important interview.

6. If everyone in the group laughs at the same time over a certain joke, we instinctively look at the person we like the most, or with the person we want to be closest to. Therefore, watch everyone's gazes after a good joke - you will know a lot ( relationships of people in the group, who likes who ... for example ).

7. When you meet someone , show your joy. The first impression people like the most when meeting a person is a smile. A friendly smile always gives others good impressions. A sincere smile or try to introduce your name in a gentle, warm way, over time they will have a better view of you and the communication will become easier and more sincere.

8. If your job forces you to " connect " with many people ( like taking care of clients ), behave politely and be kind, which can also cause others to behave politely and kindly. more subtle. If possible, place a mirror behind your desk ( anything that can reflect an image ), and the other person will always see their reflection in the mirror. As a rule, they will always try to show their best image in the mirror and do not want to see themselves as someone who is always frowning, annoyed. Give it a try and make sure they smile a lot more and be more polite.

9. If you want to get the attention of someone you like , look at something directly behind their shoulder. You will become very delicate when you look at their shoulders, they will find it strange and focus on thinking about what you do. Plus, by doing this subtly, your partner will find you more special. Once you notice that the person has turned your attention, quickly look into their eyes and smile gently. This very effective tip.

10. Control stress. In fact, we can fully control our stress. When you feel anxious, your heart will beat faster, start breathing deeply. Try to calm yourself down by breathing rhythmically and balancing your heartbeat. This is entirely within your power and power. Stress is at your fingertips, take control and don't let it overwhelm.

Body expressions are often associated with emotions: we often frown and squint when we cry. On the contrary, our facial expressions also affect our inner state. For example, you make a face like crying, maybe your tears want to fall. So using this ability will help you a lot, especially smiling. Even if it's smiling for no reason, after a few seconds, that smile can become more practical and sincere.